From V. Wayne Ward, Esq.:
Pick your battles
When a marriage ends on rather poor terms, it can sometimes prove very easy for a divorcing spouse to lose sight of what’s really important. For example, because their feelings were hurt, they may feel compelled to fight at every turn and drag out the proceedings whenever possible.
According to legal experts, this can prove to be costly over the long run. For example, a prolonged legal battle over something as minor as ownership of an insignificant household furnishing can result in hundreds of dollars in legal fees.
Those struggling with the divorce process are therefore encouraged to speak with a therapist or find another way to effectively manage their conflicting emotions.
Hire the right people
When faced with a looming divorce, it is completely normal and understandable for people to experience anxiety over money matters. Specifically, many people worry about their ability to cover the fees for an attorney, accountant and/or other financial specialist.
However, legal experts advise people in these scenarios to resist the temptation to cut corners, as it can end up costing you more in the long run. In other words, don’t be pennywise and pound foolish.
“If you hire someone good who knows what they’re doing, you’ll get the work done faster and more efficiently,” said one financial expert.
Carefully consider self-representation
Sometimes people decide to represent themselves in a divorce in a bid to save money. While this is while certainly laudable, it may not necessarily be the best option if you have the means to retain an attorney.
That’s because people who elect self-representation in contested divorce matters are frequently lacking a basic working knowledge of both the law and basic courtroom procedure, meaning they may inadvertently jeopardize their case.
In contrast, experts point out that an attorney will always protect both your rights and your best interests.
Consider speaking with an experienced and skilled legal professional to learn more about whether traditional dissolution of marriage, divorce mediation or collaborative divorce is right for your situation.
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Posted on September 12, 2013
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